Sent by LAMusing on 07-02-2008:
You wrote: Wherever you look, pesky facts suggest that far from being hindered by their sex, women reap benefits galore. Really? What benefits did Senator Clinton reap from the media saying:
"When she comes on television I involuntarily cross my legs," "she-devil," she's "the psycho ex-girlfriend of the Democratic party," "castrating, overbearing and scary," "what's wrong with her? You mean besides the PMS and the mood swings?", "Sister Frigidaire," "ding dong the witch is dead," "her cackle," male politicians supporting Clinton are "castratos in the eunuch chorus," "she's trying to run away from this tough, kind of bitchy image," "she's alternately soppy and bitchy," "she needs a radio-controlled shock collar so that aides can zap her when she starts to get screechy," the discussions about her cleavage, the "iron my shirts" event at the Hillary rally that commentators laughed about, "some women are called a bitch because they are one," "Mrs. Clinton ran almost like a Republican, and she really ran like a man. And in the end, it could be said that that's what really did damage to this historic campaign by a woman", "Evita", while discussing Hillary as possible VP "but would she OBEY him? Would she be subservient?", repeatedly referring to SENATOR Obama and MRS. Clinton, the congressman that said "like Glenn Close, she should have stayed in the tub", and Air America's Randi Rhodes at an Obama fundraiser saying that "Hillary is a f-ing whore."
Many more examples can be found in the Youtube video, "Bitch/Mad as Hell."
Of course, there's also: "Let's not forget--and I'll be brutal--the reason she's a U.S. senator, the reason she's a candidate for president, the reason she may be a front-runner is her husband messed around. That's how she got to be senator from New York. We keep forgetting it. She didn't win there on her merit. She won because everybody felt, 'My God, this woman stood up under humiliation,' right? That's what happened."
Sorry Heather "sweetie," I just don't see how this benefits any woman.
Sent by Kent Dahlberg on 07-01-2008:
Regarding the past differences in "grill room" amenities between the men's and women's locker rooms at Phoenix Country Club, there is a simple explanation for this other than discrimination towards women members at the club. A friend of ours recently spared no expense building a high-end private golf club, complete with gorgeous locker room facilities in a simple but elegant clubhouse. But the "men's lounge" area is much larger and more elaborate than the women's. The reason is because decades of experience showed that men and women tend to use these spaces differently. Male golf members tend to hang out together after a round of golf, having a sandwich and playing some cards, watching a sporting event on TV or just shooting the breeze over a beer.
By comparison, women tend to go into their locker room to change their shoes, touch up their hair and maybe freshen their makeup. Then they quickly move on to socialize and get a bite to eat in other spaces at the club--getting a bite to eat on the patio or in the dining room or relaxing with friends in the parlor-like sitting room. So, our friends built beautiful locker room areas tailored to the needs and interests of both sexes--but those facilities look VERY different in scale and scope, reflecting the distinct, well-documented behavioral patterns of how
male vs. female club members tend to utilize a clubhouse.
No doubt the New York Times can find a few women golfers who would prefer to use their locker rooms in the ways that men golfers are prone to do. My guess is that if such women golfers were the norm, every private golf club--to attract new members--would offer women's locker rooms meals served in lounge areas with tables and cushy sofas facing big-screen TV sets. That's the way market forces work. But most clubs don't do this, precisely because most women do not want this.
The struggle for womens equality comes down to this: the mens grill in the Phoenix Country Club has television and a bar, while the womens grill has neither of those amenitiesthough it soon will, following renovation. The New York Times deems the separate and unequal Phoenix grill rooms so laden with national significance as to merit front-page treatment, which it provided on Saturday.
Its been a hard year for the cause of female victimhood, as the Timess close attention to one golf clubs eating facilities suggests. The crusade to show that Hillary Clintons abysmally managed presidential campaign failed because of sexism ran up against an inconvenient reality: some of her strongest support came from Archie Bunker states like West Virginia, Kentucky, and Oklahoma, while bastions of liberal enlightenment, such as Minnesota and Connecticut, went solidly for Barack Obama. (Of course, the willingness of blue-collar males to vote for Clinton didnt stop her from claiming that, but for sexism, she would be the Democratic nominee: Although we werent able to shatter that highest, hardest ceiling this time, thanks to you, its got about 18 million cracks in it, she said to her supporters at the end of the race.)
Clintons popularity with working-class male voters is hardly the only obstacle to the perpetuation of the patriarchy myth. Wherever you look, pesky facts suggest that far from being hindered by their sex, women reap benefits galore. Every elite institution in the countryfrom Wall Street law firms to Fortune 500 companies to major media outletstries constantly to put as many women in prominent positions as it can, whether as partners, board directors, editors, op-ed contributors, or talking heads. Whenever the absence of remotely suitable candidates hinders this mission, the same institutions wail a mea culpa and promise to make amends. Federal and state governments pour millions of taxpayer dollars into the production of more female scientists, even though the sex ratio in a microbiology lab will have absolutely no bearing on whether it discovers the cure for cancer or for Alzheimers disease. Since many elementary and high schools now function as cheering squads for Grrrl Power, the idea that even more resources are required to overcome some still-unlocated bias against, say, female physicists is ludicrous. Female undergraduates now outnumber their male counterparts, which hasnt resulted in the closing of a single college womens center dedicated to providing girls with a safe space on campus.
But the most compelling proof of the desperation of the womens grievance movement is the Timess decision to resuscitate its hoary sexist golf club genre. In 2002 and 2003, the paper crusaded fanatically against the Augusta National Golf Club for its men-only membership policy. It ran dozens upon dozens of stories, often on its front page, about the clubs membership rules; it even spiked two sports columns that disagreed with its effort to pressure the club to admit women as members. But wonder of wonders, the club failed to toe the Timess line; CBS ignored the Timess command to cease broadcasting the Masters Golf Tournament, played at Augusta; and the papers editors put aside their exquisite repugnance long enough to cover the Masters with the usual level of detail, thus keeping advertising revenue safe and sound.
The Timess most recent front-page female-golf-victims story tiptoes around the papers failed Augusta campaign, which had made it a laughingstock among media cognoscenti. After noting that charges of sexism against private golf clubs are not uncommon, the story merely mentions in passing that Augusta National Golf Club in Georgia, where the Masters is held each year, does not permit women to be members. The earlier crusade having ended in defeat andthe editors hopenow lost in the mists of time, its on to the next female golfers rights struggle, as the Times preposterously puts it, even more astoundingly trivial than the last.
The Phoenix Country Club has male and female members and a common dining room. But like many clubs, it has separate mens and womens grill roomsan innocuous arrangement to which members agree by joining the club. The Times points out darkly: Women at the club are not permitted to have lunch in the mens grill room with their husbands after a round of golf. It could as justly have observed that after the same round of golf, men at the club arent allowed to lunch with their wives in the womens grill room.
The Rosa Parks role in this break-down-the-barriers battle is played by the Van Sitterts, a couple who, two years ago, wanted to eat eggs together in the mens grill room rather than in the clubs formal dining room. Having failed to persuade the board to change its policiespresumably because most members are happy with the single-sex socializing optionsthey did what any self-respecting aspirant to victimhood does today: they went whining to the government. Instead of resigning their membership and joining another club, they petitioned Arizonas attorney general to intervene. The AG was only too happy to comply, brushing aside the legal nicety that private clubs are in theory not subject to antidiscrimination laws and ruling that the club was violating those laws, since (pending renovation) the womens grill room has neither a television nor its own bar. Television and booze are available elsewhere in the club, and women can bring drinks into their grill. But in the spirit of angry young wives who tally every pair of socks that they and their husband fold, the absence of absolute tit-for-tat equality in one rooms appurtenances means that women occupy an unbearable position of inferiority.
According to the plaintiffs and their supporters, some club members have reacted boorishly to the Van Sitterts grill-room crusade, sending harassing email messages and hectoring the couple. The Times assumes that such behavior is the result of male privilege under siege: the men saw their feeding ways in peril, it sneers, and struck back. Heres another possibility: some members dont appreciate the couples roping in the Arizona attorney general. Especially since Mr. Van Sittert never once complained about the separate grill rooms during six years of board serviceperhaps not surprisingly, since he oversaw the design of those grill rooms during the 1980s, as the Phoenix New Times reports.
We will leave the Phoenix Country Club to its epic struggles. But why did the New York Times deem it significant enough to send a reporter and a photographer to Phoenix and to put their product on its front page? Do the PCCs single-sex grill rooms speak to the second-class status of women in Arizona? Hardly. As the Times itself acknowledges, Arizonas governor, secretary of state, chief justice, and senate minority leader are women. There are plenty of unequal single-sex arrangements that have not disturbed the Timess injustice sensor, such as colleges that bar male students from their athletic facilities during certain times of the day and Phoenixs women-only gyms. On occasion, the Timess coverage of Yale University suggests that the paper is merely an outpost of the Yale Daily Newsyet in the early 2000s, the Gray Lady ignored the story of the Yale Womens Centers fierce hostility to a group of male students who wanted to help with its rape prevention programs. A Womens Center board member even made physical threats against one of the boys. The leader of the male feminists still wonders at the rejection: I still feel pretty crappy about it, Eric Sandberg-Zakian said to the Yale Herald in 2007. I think if youre a guy, and youre told your entire life by society that youre not supposed to respect women or their sexuality, that women are sexual objects, and you really disagree and you make the effort and you spend your time trying to change that, you go out on a limb, and then you get attacked for doing that? Thats very, very jarring. A story not without interest for a paper seemingly interested in womens-rights strugglesyet apparently not worth covering.
Time was when liberals would have professed to care about the dishwashers in the Phoenix Country Club, not the members who send them their dirty dishes to be washed. But the narcissism of todays elites knows no bounds. Undoubtedly, a certain percentage of the Timess readers found their blood boiling at its front-page exposé of alleged second-class status among societys most privileged members. With any luck, this most decadent stage of the privileged Western womens movement is also its last.